Surrogate Mentors
Meet Your Mentors – Your Personal Cheer Squad with Wisdom to Spare
First Time Surrogate, Lennon
As a therapist who specializes in supporting mothers through every stage of motherhood—particularly those navigating postpartum challenges like anxiety and OCD—I’ve always been deeply passionate about maternal mental health. As I began working with individuals and couples facing infertility, I witnessed the incredible impact surrogates have in bringing hope and healing to families. Being an experiential therapist, I felt called to take this journey myself—not only to deepen my empathy and insight for my clients, but to actively participate in the beautiful, life-giving process I had long supported from the sidelines.
For anyone considering applying, my advice is to know your why. That purpose will anchor you through the unknowns. This has been a wonderful experience so far, but like anything meaningful, there are moments of uncertainty. Ask questions—don’t hold back. The team at Accel Conceptions is incredibly kind and responsive; they’ve never made me feel like any question is too small. From the very beginning, I felt a genuine connection with Accel. I wasn’t met with automated responses, but with real people who were warm, honest, and communicative. That personal touch truly set them apart.
My favorite part of the experience so far has been the meaningful connections—with the Accel team and the intended parents. Meeting the prospective parents for the first time was heartwarming, and their appreciation created a deep sense of mutual respect and alignment. It’s been inspiring to feel so in sync with everyone involved.
Second Time Surrogate, Kimmi
Inspired by loved ones who’ve faced infertility, I knew I wanted to be part of something as life-changing as surrogacy. Knowing my body could help make someone’s dream of having a family come true was all the motivation I needed—and I’d do it again and again.
I was referred to Accel Conceptions by a friend, and it’s been the best decision I could’ve made. The compassion, community, and support from their team have been unmatched. My first journey was both the fastest and slowest year of my life—full of anticipation, joy, and deep emotion. While the initial match didn’t work out, everything fell into place beautifully with my IPs, and the pregnancy flew by. The moment they saw their baby for the first time and the emotion on their faces will stay with me forever.
The experience has been so rewarding, not only emotionally, but also financially—it allowed my husband and me to be financially free, spend more time with our children, and pursue higher education. Postpartum brought a wave of unexpected emotions, but with Accel’s unwavering support and resources, I was able to process and heal. My advice to others is to be open, embrace every feeling, and enjoy the journey—it’s truly one of the most beautiful things you can do.
First Time Surrogate, Ashley
I was inspired to become a surrogate after seeing several friends I met through my husband’s time in the military go through the journey themselves—they were already heroes in their own families, and extended that love to help others achieve their dream of parenthood.
For anyone considering it, my advice is simple: just go for it. Ask your questions and take that first step—you’ll learn more about yourself than you ever imagined. After researching several agencies, Accel Conceptions stood out not only because we’re familiar with San Diego, but because every review spoke about how real and supportive the team is—and it’s true. They’ve had my back from start to beyond finish.
This experience has been humbling and life-changing; it’s helped our family move closer to our dream of owning land to pass down through generations. But the most meaningful part has been the friendships I’ve made—joining a sisterhood of women who truly understand every emotion and milestone, and are there for you every step of the way.
Second Time Surrogate, Kaylen
Growing up, I always loved helping others and giving back to my community, so becoming a surrogate felt like a natural path once my own family was complete. I’d followed so many inspiring surrogacy stories and felt deeply moved by how many people struggle with infertility or don’t have the opportunity to build a family of their own.
When I found Accel Conceptions, they welcomed me with open arms—the support, care, and genuine connection I’ve received from Monica and the entire team has made this journey unforgettable. They’ve become like family, always there for me, and the retreats, monthly meetups, and little surprises along the way have only deepened that bond.
My first journey was a dream—smooth, joyful, and full of meaningful connection with the intended father. The experience changed my life, not only emotionally, by filling my heart with the joy of helping create a family, but also financially, allowing me to be a stay-at-home mom to my three kids and make lasting memories with them. My advice to anyone considering surrogacy is to go in with an open heart, trust the process, and make sure you have a strong support system—you’ll need your village, and with Accel, you’ll truly find one.
Fifth Time Surrogate, Tasha
My journey into surrogacy began with a life-changing job in maternal and infant care, where I witnessed firsthand the challenges many face in starting a family. Even as a teen, I felt a strong desire to help, and when I learned about surrogacy—especially after seeing two nurses where I worked go through the process—I knew it was something I wanted to do.
After having my own son and experiencing a beautiful pregnancy and delivery, I knew it was time to pursue this dream. I chose Accel Conceptions because of Monica, whom I knew from a previous journey. Her agency stood out for its surrogate-centered care and strong sense of sisterhood. Surrogacy has changed my life, not only giving me the financial stability to travel, save, and breathe easier as a single mom, but also deepening my appreciation for motherhood.
I’ve completed four incredible journeys—each unique and beautiful in its own way—from close bonds that span across countries, to quiet, respectful distances, to a sibling journey that made me “Aunt Tasha” to two little ones nearby. My favorite part is seeing the joy on the faces of new parents—it’s indescribable. For anyone considering surrogacy, I say go for it; there’s no harm in applying, and the best possible outcome is giving someone the gift of a lifetime.